Call your baby by name and describe the actions you are doing with them. New Jersey Birth to Three Early Learning Standards. (2013). New Jersey Council for Young Children. Bodrova, E., & Leong,D.J. (2007). Tools of the mind: The Vygotskian approach to early childhood education. 2nd ed. Columbus, OH: Merrill/ Prentice Hall. (Level III) USA. Pisoni DB, Conway CM, Kronenberger WG, Horn DL, Karpicke J, Henning SC. (2008). Efficacy and effectiveness of cochlear implants in deaf children. In: Marschark M, Hauser PC, editors. Deaf cognition: Foundations and outcomes. Perspectives on deafness. New York, NY, US: Oxford University Press. pp. 52–101
Parental co-regulation was found to be the most effective means of developing self-regulation with infants and toddlers. Co-regulation involves:
(1) Providing a warm and responsive relationship where children feel respected as individuals, comforted and supported in times of stress, and confident that they will be cared for no matter what. This positive relationship will promote self-efficacy and allow children to feel secure enough to practice new skills and learn from mistakes.
(2) Structuring the environment by having consistent and predictable routines to allow children to feel safe to explore.
(3) Teach and coach self-regulation skills through modelling, instruction, practice opportunities, prompts for skill enactment, and
- Murray, Desiree W., Rosanbalm, Katie, Christopoulos, Christina, and Hamoudi, Amar (2015). Self-Regulation and Toxic Stress: Foundations for Understanding Self-Regulation from an Applied Developmental Perspective. OPRE Report #2015-21, Washington, DC: Office of Planning, Research and Evaluation, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. (Level III)
Talking about what you are doing helps children develop language abilities to describe their experiences. Developing a child’s language abilities can help promote self-regulation. Research has shown that improved language ability could promote the development of self-regulation for several biological reasons.
First, motor and language systems are closely linked in brain activation patterns and their development. Processing action-related language activates motor and premotor cortices. Lee HJ, Kang E, Oh S-H, Kang H, Soo Lee D, Lee MC, Kim C-S. Preoperative differences of cerebral metabolism relate to the outcome of cochlear implants in congenitally deaf children. Hearing Research. 2005;203:2–9. Pisoni DB, Conway CM, Kronenberger WG, Horn DL, Karpicke J, Henning SC. (2008). Efficacy and effectiveness of cochlear implants in deaf children. In: Marschark M, Hauser PC, editors. Deaf cognition: Foundations and outcomes. Perspectives on deafness. New York, NY, US: Oxford University Press. pp. 52–101. Petersen, I. T., Bates, J. E., & Staples, A. D. (2015). The role of language ability and self-regulation in the development of inattentive-hyperactive behaviour problems. Development and psychopathology, 27(1), 221–237. https://doi.org/10.1017/S0954579414000698
Vygotsky’s theoretical framework, central to current research on self-regulation, identifies a child’s emerging language acquisition as a vital force in the development of self-regulatory skills. Researchers found that the growing mastery of language leads to the emergence of private speech where children talk to themselves to guide their thinking about what they should do. Private speech helps younger children move from other-regulation to self-regulation.




