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Having consistent caregivers, especially in the early years (before three years old) helps children develop secure attachments. Frequent disruptions in care and multiple disruptions in caregiving arrangements within a day can undermine children’s ability to establish secure expectations about whether and how their needs will be met. Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University (2016). From Best Practices to Breakthrough Impacts: A Science-Based Approach to Building a More Promising Future for Young Children and Families. Retrieved from www.developingchild.harvard.edu. deSchipper, J., van IJzendoorn, M., & Tavecchio, L. (2004). Stability in centre day care: Relations with children’s well-being and problem behaviour in day care. Social Development, 13, 531-550. doi:10.1111/j.1467-9507.2004.00282.x
Studies in Singapore and abroad have shown that while attachments to their parents are primary, young children also benefit significantly from relationships with other responsive caregivers both within and outside the family. Consistent caregiving arrangements from caregivers who are responsive to the infants’ cues and needs are most important. This helps to ensure that children develop
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