Accept your child’s cries and protests when you leave. This is a sign that your child knows and trusts you and feels a sense of security when you are near. Ainsworth MDS. Infant-mother attachment. American Psychologist. 1979; 34:932–937. doi: 10.1037/0003-066X.34.10.932. Landry SH, Smith KE, Swank PR. (2006). Responsive parenting: Establishing early foundations for social, communication, and independent problem-solving skills. Developmental Psychology., 42:627– 642.
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Studies in Singapore as well as abroad have shown that while attachments to their parents are primary, young children can also benefit significantly from relationships with other responsive caregivers both within and outside the family. Consistent caregiving arrangements from caregivers who are responsive to the infants'infants' cues and needs is crucial. This helps to ensure that the child develops
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Holding and talking to the baby during play is a form of contingent communication where parents pay attention to what children are trying to communicate and respond positively and consistently. This mode of communication creates a secure environment that gives the babies the possibility to trust that they have someone to depend on in case of need. When early attachment relationships are mainly warm, positive and consistent, children feel safe with their caregivers, who become a "secure base" for them. As such, children feel free and confident to explore and interact with the world. Bowlby, J. (1988). A secure base: Parent-child attachment and healthy human development. New York, NY: Basic Books. Bakermans-Kranenburg, M. J., van IJzendoorn, M. H., & Juffer, F. (2003). Less is more: Meta-analyses of sensitivity and attachment interventions in early childhood. Psychological Bulletin, 129, 195–215. Landry SH, Smith KE, Swank PR. (2006). Responsive parenting: Establishing early foundations for social, communication, and independent problem-solving skills. Developmental Psychology., 42:627–642. Barnas, M. V., & Cummings, E. M. (1994). Caregiver stability and toddlers’ attachment related behaviour towards caregivers in day care. Infant Behaviour and Development, 17, 141-147.